{"id":633,"date":"2017-11-01T10:44:45","date_gmt":"2017-11-01T14:44:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/?p=633"},"modified":"2017-11-01T09:44:58","modified_gmt":"2017-11-01T13:44:58","slug":"eyes-front","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/eyes-front\/","title":{"rendered":"Eyes Front"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_638\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-638\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/SunsetRoad.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-638\" src=\"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/SunsetRoad.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of road leading to sunset.\" width=\"660\" height=\"361\" srcset=\"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/SunsetRoad.jpg 660w, https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/SunsetRoad-300x164.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-638\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo copyright \u00a92017 David J Crone. All rights reserved.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Keep your eyes on the road. Never look back. Eyes on the prize. We&#8217;re in it for the long haul.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many cliched sayings on the topic of staying focused on our goals.<\/p>\n<p>Why is it so hard to stay the course when pursuing a long term goal or dream?<\/p>\n<p>I blame Amazon.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks to Amazon, we expect 2-day delivery of nearly anything. In some cases, we can get 2-hour delivery. Or, if you&#8217;re willing to pay for it, some items will even be delivered in 1 hour. Quite a far cry from the way I grew up.<\/p>\n<p>Have you ever purchased something on layaway? Does anyone still do that?<\/p>\n<p>The last time I bought something on a layaway plan was 34 years ago &#8211; an engagement ring. (<em>I could say, &#8220;and I&#8217;m still paying for it.&#8221; But, the reality is, it remains the best purchase I have ever made.<\/em>)<\/p>\n<p>How about saving box tops? Do you remember that? This was a common thing when I was a kid. By sending in the tops from boxes of cereal, along with a small amount to cover shipping and handling, you could get all kinds of great prizes.<\/p>\n<p>I got my start as a magician with a trick I got in a box of cereal. Wheat Chex, to be exact. From there, I saved box tops to send away for a full-fledged magic kit. It required 6 box tops. Do you know how long it takes to save up 6 box tops? In our house, it was not a thing to buy 6 boxes of cereal at a time. And it certainly was not OK to open a new box until the current one was all gone. And, no, it was not OK to eat cereal for breakfast, lunch and dinner.<\/p>\n<p>After collecting all of the required box tops, you had to mail them via standard US postal delivery, then wait 6-8 weeks for delivery of your long coveted prize. There was no such thing as overnight delivery. I remember checking the mail every day for the entire time in anticipation of the fantastic prize.<\/p>\n<p>Would anyone do that today?<\/p>\n<p>With instant downloads on the Internet, on-demand streaming of movies, and overnight delivery (or less) of nearly anything, we have been trained to think everything should happen quickly.<\/p>\n<p>With that mindset, we get frustrated by how long things take. We think we should be able to achieve anything by next week at the latest.<\/p>\n<p>I started my career as a software engineer. I used to work on projects that were measured in months, sometimes many, many months. Now when I launch into a new project on my website, I get frustrated when I don&#8217;t have it done before lunchtime.<\/p>\n<p>In my current career as entertainer and speaker, I often get frustrated because things are not where I&#8217;d like them to be. Why is this taking so long?<\/p>\n<p>Then I pause to look back and realize how far I have come. I watch video from events I did a few years ago and compare that with video from one I did last week. Wow! Maybe I am making progress. Maybe things are on track.<\/p>\n<p>Are you feeling frustrated? Do you feel like you&#8217;re never going to get there? (Wherever &#8220;there&#8221; is for you.)<\/p>\n<p>Try this. Take your eyes off the road. Do look back. See how far you have already come. Acknowledge your progress.<\/p>\n<p>Now you can go back to eyes front. Eyes on the prize. Sure, it&#8217;s a long haul. Might as well settle in and enjoy the ride.<\/p>\n<p>And once in a while, check that rear view mirror.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Keep your eyes on the road. Never look back. Eyes on the prize. We&#8217;re in it for the long haul. There are so many cliched sayings on the topic of staying focused on our goals. Why is it so hard to stay the course when pursuing a long term goal or dream? I blame Amazon. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/eyes-front\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Eyes Front<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false},"categories":[6,7,13,15,9,12,8,10],"tags":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/633"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=633"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/633\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":640,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/633\/revisions\/640"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=633"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=633"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=633"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}