{"id":404,"date":"2017-03-01T10:14:48","date_gmt":"2017-03-01T15:14:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/?p=404"},"modified":"2017-03-01T09:44:52","modified_gmt":"2017-03-01T14:44:52","slug":"im-ok-with-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/im-ok-with-that\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m OK with that"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_405\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-405\" style=\"width: 660px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Beach-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-405\" src=\"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Beach-1-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of a beach\" width=\"660\" height=\"495\" srcset=\"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Beach-1-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Beach-1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/Beach-1-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 660px) 100vw, 660px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-405\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Copyright \u00a92017 David J Crone &#8211; All rights reserved<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Have you ever drawn a line in the sand that you refuse to cross? \u00a0What are your self-imposed limits? Are you OK with the consequences?<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s an example:<\/p>\n<p>I was working for a company with headquarters in Reston, VA, near Washington, DC. \u00a0My office was in a satellite office in Columbus, OH. \u00a0I had teams reporting to me in Columbus and Reston. \u00a0My boss was in Reston.<\/p>\n<p>My boss made numerous attempts to get me to relocate to Virginia. Each time, I refused. Finally, I think in a fit of frustration, he said, &#8220;You know, David, staying in Columbus is a career limiting move.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I asked, &#8220;Is it career ending? Or just career limiting?&#8221; He said it was only career limiting. I responded, &#8220;I&#8217;m OK with that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My family was well established within our community, the schools, and our friends. Columbus was our home. Uprooting my family and starting over in a new community was a line I refused to cross. The possibility of career advancement beyond the level I had already achieved was not worth it to me.<\/p>\n<p>I have never regretted that decision.<\/p>\n<p>When we come upon lines that we refuse to cross, we must consider the consequence and ask ourselves, &#8220;Am I OK with that?&#8221; If we are, \u00a0then fine. But, if we really want what awaits us on the other side, we must pluck up our courage and take the steps necessary to step over that line.<\/p>\n<p>In my scenario above, I was fortunate that it was a career limiting choice, not career ending. Had the consequences been different, I would have been forced to make a different choice &#8211; either to relocate or seek other employment.<\/p>\n<p>Where&#8217;s your line? What are the consequences of not crossing it? Are you OK with that?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever drawn a line in the sand that you refuse to cross? \u00a0What are your self-imposed limits? Are you OK with the consequences? Here&#8217;s an example: I was working for a company with headquarters in Reston, VA, near Washington, DC. \u00a0My office was in a satellite office in Columbus, OH. \u00a0I had teams &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/im-ok-with-that\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">I&#8217;m OK with that<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false},"categories":[47,13,9,8,10],"tags":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/404"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=404"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/404\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":407,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/404\/revisions\/407"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=404"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=404"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=404"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}