{"id":1006,"date":"2019-06-12T11:16:21","date_gmt":"2019-06-12T15:16:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/?p=1006"},"modified":"2019-06-12T11:10:22","modified_gmt":"2019-06-12T15:10:22","slug":"i-know-my-limits-do-you-know-yours","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/WorkShouldBeFun.com\/blog\/i-know-my-limits-do-you-know-yours\/","title":{"rendered":"Limits"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A man’s got to know his limitations.<\/p>Harry Callahan, aka Dirty Harry, aka Clint Eastwood in Magnum Force<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

What are your limitations? Where do you draw the line?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many years ago, when I was a low level executive with AOL, I had a conversation with my new boss where I laid out my limitations. I was based in Columbus, OH, with teams in both Columbus and Reston, VA. There had been increasing pressure for me to move to Reston. In my first meeting with a newly hired boss, I told him, \u201cThere\u2019s something you need to know. I am not interested in moving. I will travel to the point of pain, but I\u2019m not going to move.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He reminded me of that conversation years later when I discussed taking a sabbatical (technically a leave of absence\u2026). He asked, \u201cWhat happened to traveling to the point of pain?\u201d<\/em> My response, \u201cI\u2019ve crossed the pain threshold.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Side note: This second conversation is a great example of what made this particular boss one of the best I have had. He remembered things in great detail and did his best to accommodate his people\u2019s needs, while still meeting the needs of the organization. The fact that he recalled my exact words from years before spoke volumes. Can your boss do that? Can you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Business travel is one of those things I no longer enjoy. At least not if it involves airports. I\u2019ll gladly drive 8 hours one way to avoid the hassles of air travel. This past January I drove to Olewein, IA, for a gig. That trip was 10 hours of drive time each way. Even in the middle of January, driving it was preferable to air travel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is my limitation. What\u2019s yours?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It wasn\u2019t always like this. I used to enjoy business travel. I enjoyed flying to San Jose\u2019 every couple months to meet with the staff there who reported to me. I enjoyed the almost weekly trips to Virginia. It was exciting. I traveled so often I was on a first name basis with the woman in the Avis rental car booth at Dulles airport. (Hi, Marlena! How are you?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now? I get anxious just opening the airline ticketing web site. Ugh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How about you? Is there something that you used to enjoy, but now dread? Has your line moved? Do you have different limitations than you once did?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be aware of your limitations. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feeling stressed? Maybe you\u2019re bumping up against one of your limits. Maybe it\u2019s a limit you didn\u2019t know was there. Step back. Look around. Give it some thought. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019ve discovered a limitation, whether it is new or longstanding, what can you do to deal with it? Is there an alternative? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes all we need is a break. In my case, when I returned after my sabbatical, the pain of air travel had receded. It took years for it to return to its current level of abhorrence. And it is only when traveling for business. Vacation? Sure! Let\u2019s go! Business? No thanks. I\u2019d rather drive. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Take the time to look at your stress levels. Dig in. Look for the cause. It\u2019s probably not what you think. You might think your boss is being a jerk. More likely they are asking you to cross one of your limit lines. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Know your limitations. Find a way to break through them, or a way around. Step one is the same: identification<\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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